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Moi IP: 66.215.188.48
2/08/2006 07:51:04 |
Subject: Deb
Message: Hey kiddo!
I'm just dropping this note to let you know that we are all still thinking of you and hoping that things are going as well as they can.
You're still in our prayers and we are really looking forward to hearing from you just as soon as you feel up to 'hanging out' awhile.
{{{Deb}}}
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Barbara Wheeler
IP: 66.82.9.87
2/08/2006 08:34:50 | RE: Deb
Message: I second that, Deb. We all hope you are beginning to regroup so you can get back in here. How are the children and grandbabies? We will save your spot in this insanity. We miss you and wish you all the love you need to get back.
Moi, you are always the most thoughtful person I know. What are you doing up at that hour!
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Sheltie Girl
IP: 68.59.247.39
2/08/2006 09:33:44 | RE: Deb
Message: Deb you are in my thoughts and prayers!
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Lynnie
IP: 69.207.171.31
2/08/2006 12:20:44 | RE: Deb
Message: Warmest wishes, Deb. I'm sure your plate is full these days.
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Jill
IP: 64.12.116.130
2/08/2006 12:42:49 | RE: Deb
Message: Deb,
I continue to pray for you as well. You're in all of our thoughts.
Jill
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debodel
IP: 72.15.68.90
2/08/2006 22:55:42 | RE: Deb
Message: Hey Ladies, I am back, at least partially. I am going to try to go to work tomorrow. I can't walk around here and cry forever. The last of my brothers and sisters left today. So, I spent the day with my daughter. We did a little cleaning around her apartment. She actually lived with my mom, so it's been tough on her today. I am just about ready for bed, but I wanted to thank each of you from the bottom of my heart for all of your thoughts and prayers.
Barbara, thank you so much for your thoughtful package. I will catch up on things in the next few days. I look forward to just relaxing a bit and chatting with all of you.
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Lynnie
IP: 69.207.171.31
2/08/2006 23:03:56 | RE: Deb
Message: Welcome back, Deb. I hope getting back into your routine gives you some quiet time to grieve as well as feel a bit better.
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Barbara Wheeler
IP: 66.82.9.77
2/08/2006 23:34:08 | RE: Deb
Message: Hi Deb,
I am so glad you are coming back to us soon. Give your daughter a hug and tell her to take the time she needs. Last weekend I went through another box of my Mums things and let go of just a bit more, and she passed in August 2001. So these things take time to be able to resolve to a meaningful conclusion. Don't just jump in a start pitching things out, or vow to never let go of something. Take the time to live with what has happened and the items will sort of "tell you" what needs to happen with them.
Thoughts and prayers.
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Sheltie Girl
IP: 68.59.247.39
2/09/2006 10:20:48 | RE: Deb
Message: Deb I am glad that your daughter has a wonderful Mother like you to help her get through this!My heart goes out to you and your family in this tough time and you are in my prayers.
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debodel
IP: 72.15.68.90
2/09/2006 22:38:32 | RE: Deb
Message: Well, today was a lot tougher than I thought it would be. Can I just stay in bed and pull the covers over my head? I don't want to sound ungrateful, I really am not. But, just checking the mail is painful. There are cards and letters of friends and family expressing their sympathy and sending prayers. Then, I come home from work and more flowers arrive. Just when I think I can't cry another tear, the flood gates open. I really don't want to sound like I don't appreciate it all. I honestly do. And I don't know what I would have done without all of your prayers and well wishes. Maybe tomorrow will be better. I have managed to keep up with my NGF, somewhat. It's just a little quiet time, a little me time that I manage to sneak in now and again. Good night all my lovely friends.
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Barbara Wheeler
IP: 66.82.9.55
2/10/2006 07:50:18 | RE: Deb
Message: It will get just a bit easier to deal with the day to day. At first you DON"T WANT to, then you find you need to, then you HAVE to, and then berfore you realize it, you actually, REALLY WANT to again. It will happen. Everyone recovers their life in their own time and way. Your Mum would be so proud of the way you are doing ALL of this Deb. Just one day at a time, one foot in front of the other, and before you know it, you're well into your journey. AND your Mum is still right there with you all the while.
Good to have you back. Even if you don't want to, (yet!).................
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